You can’t be disappointed and get what you want. Your disappointment is the indication that you are not vibrationally in sync with what you want. There are no words that will change the result because your vibrational energy isn’t aligned with what you want. You are still chasing. You are still wanting. You are still needing. Everything but believing it’s yours. When you believe it’s already done, instead of disappointment you feel confidence. You feel peace. You feel excitement. Your actions are not cohesive to chasing. To disbelief. Your vibrational form needs to align first in order to get what you want. Stop focusing on what isn’t working. Stop focusing on what you don’t want. You are suppose to feel good. Life is suppose to feel good. When you change your energy, you change your results. Life can give you everything you want. It can present you with every opportunity you want. Every person that can help you get everything you want. But you need to decide to align vibrationally to those things first.
Everyday Makeup Routine 💄🪞💋✨
- Primer: Apply a lightweight, mattifying primer to create a smooth base for your makeup and control excess oil.
- Foundation or Tinted Moisturizer: Even out your skin tone with a light layer of foundation or a tinted moisturizer that matches your skin shade. (You don’t always need foundation. I only wear foundation if I am going for a full glam look. Other wise, I use concealer and tinted moisturizer on days my skin is not cooperating.)
- Concealer: Use a creamy concealer to cover any blemishes, redness, or under-eye circles.
- Setting Powder: Gently dust a translucent setting powder to lock in your base and reduce shine.
- Blush: Add a natural flush to your cheeks with a soft blush in a shade that complements your skin tone.
- Eyebrows: Fill in and shape your eyebrows using a brow pencil or powder for a polished look.
- Eyeshadow: Apply neutral eyeshadow shades for a subtle enhancement of your eyelids.
- Eyeliner: A thin line of brown or black eyeliner along the upper lash line can define your eyes.
- Mascara: Coat your lashes with mascara to open up your eyes and give them a more awake appearance.
- Lip Color: Choose a lip color that suits your style, whether it’s a nude shade, a soft pink, or a subtle berry.
Additional Steps for a Polished Makeup Look:
- Contour and Highlight: Use a contour powder to define your cheekbones, jawline, and nose. Then, apply a subtle highlighter to the high points of your face for a radiant glow.
- Setting Spray: Finish your makeup by spritzing a setting spray to lock everything in place and give your skin a fresh, dewy finish.
- Lip Liner: To enhance the shape of your lips and prevent lipstick from feathering, use a lip liner that matches your chosen lip color.
- Lipstick or Lip Gloss: Apply your preferred lip product, whether it’s a classic lipstick for a bold look or a lip gloss for a more natural shine.
- Finishing Touch: Take a moment to blend everything together and ensure there are no harsh lines or uneven patches.
Product Suggestions:
- Primer: “Mattifying Pore Minimizer” - Helps create a smooth canvas and control shine.
- Foundation or Tinted Moisturizer: “Natural Glow Tinted Moisturizer” - Provides light coverage and a healthy radiance.
- Concealer: “Creamy Conceal & Correct” - Covers imperfections while remaining blendable.
- Setting Powder: “Translucent Setting Powder” - Sets makeup and reduces oiliness without adding color.
- Blush: “Soft Rosy Blush” - Adds a natural flush to your cheeks.
- Eyebrows: “Brow Sculpting Pencil” - Defines and shapes your brows for a put-together look.
- Eyeshadow: “Everyday Neutrals Eyeshadow Palette” - Offers versatile shades for subtle eye enhancement.
- Eyeliner: “Precision Eye Liner” - Provides a defined line along the lash line.
- Mascara: “Lengthening Lash Mascara” - Gives your lashes a longer and fuller appearance.
- Lip Color: “Nude Lip Crème” - Choose a shade that complements your style and skin tone.
- Contour and Highlight: “Sculpt & Glow Contour Kit” - Comes with contour shades and a shimmering highlight for dimension.
- Setting Spray: “Hydrating Setting Mist” - Sets makeup and provides a luminous finish.
- Lip Liner: “Precision Lip Liner” - Defines your lips and extends the wear of your lip color.
- Lipstick or Lip Gloss: “Creamy Matte Lipstick” - Offers rich color and a velvety finish. “Glossy Lip Shine” - Adds a touch of shine and moisture.
- Finishing Touch: “Blending Brush Duo” - Helps seamlessly blend and soften your makeup for a polished result.
Let me know if you guys want me to do a post with my personal product recommendations :)
The women who get treated the way you want to be treated have already created the life they wanted for themselves. How men treat them is a reflection of what they see in that woman. Don’t expect others to give you things you are not giving yourself. Carry yourself how you expect to be treated.
When you truly love yourself, discipline becomes second nature. You deserve to feel and look your absolute best, and pushing yourself to step outside of your comfort zone will expand your experiences in amazing ways. Practicing self-love will help you effortlessly align with the discipline you need to live your best life.
Femininity in Leadership: Navigating Challenges and Leveraging Strengths
Women have made tremendous progress in breaking down barriers and achieving leadership positions in the workplace, but there are still unique challenges that women face as they navigate the path to leadership. From gender bias to societal expectations, women face a range of obstacles that can make it difficult to assert themselves as leaders. However, by embracing their feminine strengths, women can become effective leaders and navigate these challenges with grace and confidence.
One of the biggest challenges that women face in leadership positions is navigating gender bias and discrimination in the workplace. Research has shown that women are often held to higher standards than men and are more likely to face criticism and backlash when they assert themselves in the workplace. This can make it difficult for women to assert their authority and feel confident in their leadership roles.
However, women also have unique strengths that they can leverage to become effective leaders. Women are often skilled at building relationships, communicating effectively, and empathizing with others. These are all valuable traits in leadership positions, and women who embrace these traits can become highly effective leaders.
To become an effective feminine leader, it is important to focus on developing your own unique leadership style. This may involve being more collaborative, empowering others, and leading by example. Women who are able to embrace their authentic leadership style and bring their own unique strengths to the table are more likely to be successful in leadership positions.
Another key factor in becoming an effective feminine leader is to seek out mentorship and support from other women. Women who have already navigated the path to leadership can provide valuable insights and advice on how to succeed in a male-dominated workplace. Additionally, connecting with other women who share your values and interests can provide a sense of community and support that can be incredibly valuable.
While women may face unique challenges in leadership positions, they also have unique strengths that can be leveraged to become effective leaders. By embracing their feminine strengths, seeking out mentorship and support, and developing their own unique leadership style, women can break down barriers and achieve success in the workplace. Let’s continue to support and empower each other as we strive for greater representation in leadership positions.
Femininity is more than just wearing pretty dresses. You can fake the image but it won’t change your feminine energy or the results you get because of it.
Resting in your feminine means:
💗 Having self control.
💗 Having standards and setting boundaries.
💗 Building your financial literacy.
💗 Seeking help even when you can do it yourself.
💗 Trusting that all of your needs are met.
💗 Maintaining hobbies and habits that make you your best self because you know you deserve it.
Inner beauty manifests in our outer beauty. You should spend as much time working on your inner self, as you do your looks.
Some feminine attitudes you can work on:
1. Happiness: when you’re happy with yourself you radiate positivity, joy and peace that is magnetic. You are a joy to be around because you make others feel good just by being around you.
2. Classiness: being classy is more than how we dress. It’s also about our attitude, our manners, how we speak and interact with others.
3. Kindness: being “nice” can be faked. Kindness cannot. Kindness comes from the heart, it’s warm, loving, caring, and compassionate attitude that comes from a person who isn’t lead by their ego.
4. Authenticity: authenticity means being the real you, unapologetically. being the real you without living for others or getting triggered and offended by others thoughts about you is the core of self confidence. People respect real confidence and can see through fakeness.
Social Etiquette 101
- Do not manifest impatience. Be present in the conversation.
- Do not engage in argument.
- Do not interrupt someone else while they are speaking.
- If you must, gently critique.
- Do not talk of your private, personal or family matters.
- Do not appear to notice inaccuracies of speech in others.
- Do not allow yourself to lose your temper or speak excitedly.
- Do not allude to peculiarities of the people present.
- Do not introduce topics the people you are with have no general interest in.
- Do not speak loudly.
- Do not try to force yourself, or be intense, into the confidence of others.
- When they give you their confidence, don’t betray it.
- Keep it light. Do not aspire to be a story teller. Tell short, light stories, appropriate with the current temperature of the rest of the party involved.
- Use clear, distinct, gentle and firm words to express your ideas.
- Be cool, collected and poised, using respectful and appropriate language.
- Always defend the absent person who is being spoken about, as far as truth or justice is concerned. If you have nothing positive to add, leave the conversation.
- Allow other people to share.
- Don’t talk about yourself so much. Your merit will be found in your expression of a subject without having to constantly praise yourself.
- Slight mistakes and inaccuracies should be overlooked for the sake harmony and natural flow.
- Adapt your conversation to the flow or level of the people you are speaking with. Do not under or over value them. Speaking to them how they understand, will provide more trust and comfort.
To be a woman of power is to be a woman ready to love herself and prioritize her well being over anyone else’s judgement.
For the boys!
Love yourself so that you don’t date women who fulfill certain voids but bring you down. Any woman will cook for you. Any woman can be your personal assistant. Any woman will act right for a week after you get upset. Any woman can “admire your work ethic” especially if you’re making money. But they will still kick scream, not help you, not build with you, not contribute, not bring you any peace or any feelings conducive to an environment where you can flourish as a man or create the life you may want. Primarily because as much as they say they personally want to do certain things to excel in their own lives, they don’t show it with their actions. They will not elevate your career goals in anyway. Because that is not their own personal goal or vision for their own life.
A woman with a vision and goals will push you and tell you to work more. A woman who doesn’t, will always want you to work less, hold you back. A man with a purpose needs a woman with a vision. If you want a regular average life then this doesn’t matter, but the type of women you would get for either are very different. Make sure your partner aligns with your morals, values, vision, work ethic, goals etc. Take people for who they show they you are- not who they tell you they want to be.
People don’t realize the effect they have on their partner in a relationship. And how much of who they are and what they do determines the kind of life they will create individually and together. Love is not enough. Love will not save your relationship. Love will not automatically give you a successful future. You can’t force a person to want to build with you. So it’s very important to understand these qualities to decide not only what kind of relationship you will have but also what kind of future you can have with the person you choose to be with.
A masculine man wants a feminine woman who is his valued counterpart. Not a doormat or a pushover. Nor is he looking for his gender twin-a masculine woman. He wants a woman who will compliment his masculinity with her femininity.
Masculine men don’t see femininity as less valuable than masculinity. good men view women, and look for women, that they see as different but equal to them. Not inferior to them. Most men hold femininity at very high regard because it is so hard to find, that they see it as a strength. When we operate from our feminine energy, men naturally want to protect us, care for us, adore and honor us.
Although some feminine qualities like softness and tenderness seem insignificant to us because they are natural and effortless, they are precious to a man. Our feminine softness proves valuable because it soothes his soul and contributes to his sense of well-being. our femininity makes a man feel masculine. And his masculinity restores his energy. Without a feminine woman in his life, a man often lacks inspiration and settles for an average life.
Dancing to your favorite song in the morning brings out your happy soft confident self. If you’re trying to tap into your feminine I recommend you start moving your body and letting it flow. Your feminine side gets expressed when you move with the flow of life, embrace your creative energy, dance, play.